Breathing, boundaries and bowls - tales from a Loving Kindness retreat
This week I hosted my first ever Loving Kindness retreat in Denmark at The Floating Forest. I have to say it exceeded my expectations. The location was a dream, the group of women were inspiring and the lessons learned were heartfelt. I’ve already booked the location for next year, so please get in touch if you are interested.
The theme for the retreat was “Loving Kindness.” It’s a practice rooted in Buddhist tradition that focuses on cultivating unconditional love and compassion towards oneself and others. This powerful technique can help transform our inner world, leading to greater peace, happiness, and emotional resilience.
A typical day on the retreat went like this:
Wake up to the sounds of birds and trees. Most people had their own chalets and could make the most of a slow, quiet morning.
At 8.30 we’d gather for a walk amongst the trees.
Then at 10.30 we’d meet in the main house for Loving Kindness meditation, a discussion and morning tea.
After some rest time we’d meet again for lunch. I did all the cooking and prepared these delicious nourish bowls.
Then more downtime followed by an afternoon group activity with afternoon tea.
Finally we’d meet for dinner and have deep conversations with a lot of laughter (and a few tears).
I know it sounds simple, but it was magic.
We finished the retreat by having lunch at a winery in Denmark and I asked everyone what they would take away with them from the retreat. A couple of people said they would create some better boundaries in their life. More than one person said they want to carve time out like this for themselves regularly. A few people said they wanted to practice breath work to keep themselves calm. And a few of us (me included) said we wanted to eat more nourish bowls!
I think we all need more rest than we currently get, and I have witnessed more than once the power of switching off completely on retreat. When I got back I spoke to one of my Bali retreat guests and she said even 2 months later she still feels more relaxed than normal.